Inviting Stories

November 15, 2007 09:37 AM
Inviting stories is a productive way to discuss a controversial issue. People feel strongly about the issue of our denominational name because of particular life experiences and worldviews. Sharing of stories invites compassion across lines of disagreement, encourages understanding, and requires that differences be taken seriously. Below are suggestions for inviting stories regarding names and naming.

Invite people to share stories about:
  • the significance of their own name
  • positive experiences with our denominational name
  • negative experiences with our denominational name
  • the process of naming their own child or pet (or if addressing children, invite stories about how they named certain toys, etc)

Additional Discussion Items (to be used after the sharing of stories):
  • If people shared differing experiences about the denominational name, discuss how we can best deal with these differences?
  • After sharing stories, discuss the meaning of names and naming.
  • If the sharing of stories highlighted different experiences with the denominational name, discuss the place of compassion and understanding when dealing with controversial issues.
  • If the sharing of stories highlighted similar experiences with the denominational name, brainstorm reasons why some do not share this similar experience.
  • Read the two speeches written by Beth Glick-Rieman and Mia Miller titled "What's Love Got To Do With Names". Discuss the personal stories shared in each article.

We invite you to share your stories with your Caucus friends right here! Just submit your stories as 'comments' and join the conversation!
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